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Nursery said it was OK to leave. Now changed mind and want fees!

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Paloma82 · 06/07/2018 12:47

Hello All,
I’m hoping someone can help my frustrating situation.

In April we gave notice to the admin team of our nursery to leave in July. We missed the deadline by a week, and was told if we leave we have to pay the fees (sept-dec) or we have to keep her in until December. Ok, a hard pill to swallow, but it was our fault so we planned to move in December instead.

Just a week ago, before the last day of nursery, the teachers at nursery said they didn’t have a place for our daughter in September as they were told she was leaving. Confused, I contacted admin again to confirm this, and lo and behold, they now said, yes the notice we gave was sufficient, so we can leave. Happy days! As we wanted our daughter to start with the new nursery in September. So we signed her up, got everything sorted with the new nursery.

Now, today, admin have said. Sorry for the confusion, you actually didn’t give enough notice so you have to pay the fees!

Seriously, if I wasn’t afraid of being taken to court or ruining my credit score, i’d Tell them how sh*t their admin is and how unprofessional and damn right stupid this is, on that basis I’m not paying. But I want to do this right and hopefully carry on as planned.

Can anyone offer any advice? Can I just withhold the fees on the basis that they emailed to confirm there was enough notice and that we signed up our daughter to the new nursery now.

Thanks! P

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Paloma82 · 15/07/2018 12:47

Ah I see.
They said on email that we had given sufficient notice and could now leave. They’re mistake of course.
But they didn’t say in writing that the space was filled. We go this impression from the teachers.

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peteneras · 15/07/2018 19:37

First, an email is as good as a letter that came via Royal Mail. Next, I wouldn't waste any more time arguing with them about the fee in lieu, etc. Thirdly, I'd take my child to the new school in September and tell them any more demands for money will be seen as harassment or even blackmail! I'd call their bluff in taking you to court - I honestly do!

Paloma82 · 15/07/2018 21:46

Wow, thanks Pete. You really think go that route? I suppose if I don’t respond their next move would be to send a court summons?
Or hopefully they’ll leave it.

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Flaminghaggis · 15/07/2018 21:55

Harassment Confused you sound like you have firm grounds to not pay, don’t go on about harassment or blackmail.

Jonbb · 16/07/2018 00:18

You'll be fine. You have a watertight defence to any small claim.

Paloma82 · 16/07/2018 19:40

Thanks Guys!
Have thought about it and Will be sending that email (drafted above) as I want them to (hopefully) see we have a case and leave us alone.

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Paloma82 · 16/07/2018 20:50

Oh, forgot to mention!

The nursery owe us a deposit. Should I take this off the last payment we send them? Or pay them fully and request the deposit back?

Which would be a good way to go?

Thanks all!

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Ginger1982 · 16/07/2018 20:54

Take the deposit off if that's what would have ordinarily happen. You'll never get it back otherwise.

insancerre · 16/07/2018 20:58

Take the deposit off
Do they have a head office or is it not part of a chain?

Paloma82 · 16/07/2018 21:33

Okay, will do! Thanks.
They are part of a chain, we’re dealing with the assistant bursar for a few of the schools. Does that matter?

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insancerre · 16/07/2018 21:46

It might be better to go higher and go to the top of the chain

Paloma82 · 16/07/2018 22:13

was thinking that, but I figured once I send this email and take our deposit off the last payment, the top will come looking for us?!

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