My ex has recently decided he wants to change when he sees our son but we can’t come to an agreement (which is a whole other thread) so we’d agreed on mediation. He contacted a mediator and had a MIAM but it turned out they don’t accept legal aid, which I think I’m eligible for as I certainly can’t afford it otherwise. So I told his mediator, who should have told him, that I would find another mediator that does accept legal aid. I have done this but their soonest available appointment isn’t for a few weeks so I have an MIAM appointment booked but haven’t seen them yet. I came home from the school run this morning to find court papers had arrived, he’s applied to take me to court claiming I have refused mediation! Is there anything I can do about this? Obviously I’d prefer to sort it out through mediation but the court date is four days after my MIAM so it’s unlikely we’ll have sorted anything out by then.