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I need to take my child out of school for one day

10 replies

Orlandobound · 05/06/2018 02:15

We have a once in a lifetime event happening next week, and I need to take my child out of school for one day.

I haven't asked the school in fear they say no to our request.

Can I just take DC out and tell them I am doing so?

Will I get a fine for one missed day?

Thank you

OP posts:
melse2964 · 05/06/2018 02:22

Hi..
Noooo dont worry course its okay for your child to miss school for one day. i mean my little boy has had many days off school due to family circumstances but im sure the school wont have a problem if you let them no in advance.
mel xx

OrchidInTheSun · 05/06/2018 02:32

You can ask, they will say no but they're not going to do anything. I just say "X won't be in school tomorrow because of Y but will be back on on Friday" or whatever

OrchidInTheSun · 05/06/2018 02:33

And no, you won't get a fine unless they miss 5 days

prh47bridge · 05/06/2018 08:59

You should ask. The school can approve a day off in exceptional circumstances. Even if they say no you won't get fined for a single day off. But if they say yes the day will be recorded as authorised absence which means you are less likely to have problems if your child has further days off, e.g. due to illness. The worst thing you can do from the school's point of view is to say nothing.

SuburbanRhonda · 05/06/2018 09:04

Ask for a request for authorised absence - the school office will be able to give you one. It’s likely the head will authorise it, especially if his attendance is otherwise very good (over 95%).

Don’t just tell the school he’s not coming in as pp have suggested. That’s unnecessarily rude.

bimbobaggins · 05/06/2018 09:18

I have never asked, they aren’t going to say yes. Just politely inform them, nothing rude about that

OrchidInTheSun · 05/06/2018 09:22

Why is it rude Suburban? Our school won't authorise for any reason at all - even if attendance is 100% up until that point. So there is no point in asking. The OP's school may of course be different :)

Branleuse · 05/06/2018 10:01

just dont send them in

prh47bridge · 05/06/2018 13:31

We have confident statements on this thread saying that the school will authorise it and that they won't. No-one here can know. We don't know exactly what this "once in a lifetime event" is nor do we know which school is involved. The OP should ask. The worst that can happen is they say no, which won't stop the OP taking her child out of school for the day. It will simply mean it is recorded as an unauthorised absence. But if they say yes it will be recorded as an authorised absence, which helps the school and could help the OP if her child has other absences.

starkid · 05/06/2018 17:12

Might as well ask for an authorised absence, but still go either way

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