Changing schools

[PlayingTheRoleOfMum]

There is no “legal” agreement set in place, but there has been a verbal agreement which has been consistent for 2years. However my ex has now decided that they are moving the children’s school? This will be over an hour from my home (currently 35 minutes). I collect / drop of the children twice a week and have full time employment. This change will mean I won’t be able to see the children through the week? And would struggle dropping them off after a weekend. As we share the arrangement etc, can my ex do this without my concent? And is there anything I can do?

No, they can't do it without your consent. Make sure that both schools are aware that you have PR and you do not consent to the change of school. If they do not accept that as meaning the change cannot happen you'll have to apply to court for a Prohibited Steps Order.

The schools have said there is nothing they can do, unless an order is received. Will appoint a solicitor next week. Does anyone know how long this takes and what the court order looks at? As I’m worried the school places will get filled, if they move.

Why do they want them to move schools?

You need to do it urgently, and on a without notice basis, as if they have notice that may prompt them to do it anyway, and then it's too late.

It can be done in a day or so if your solicitor is good and you can afford it.