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Moving away whilst in court over baby

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Hannabee123 · 08/05/2018 15:46

A few months ago I gave birth and I had my exs mother move in against my will and take my child off me. I told her to leave and she attacked me and her and my ex abducted my child. He has PR so I didn't see her for a couple of weeks he wouldn't allow me to see her. I went to court and she was in my care that afternoon and has been since. His visitation never happened because he went to attack my dad and verbally abused me when I went to collect her after not seeing her.
We've been in and out of court ever since. Cafcass are currently involved and he has fully supervised contact in a contact centre at the moment but I know it won't stay that way forever.

I've already moved 50 miles away to my parents because of all this. My question is could I move away now whilst it's all going through court and with orders constantly being put in place? I'd still be in the UK but 300 miles away way up north.

I don't know how it would all work out with the courts and access etc. But I just don't feel safe. The police have been awful and he's still trying to harass me and yet he's getting access.
Can anyone help?

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kissthealderman · 08/05/2018 15:57

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Soubriquet · 08/05/2018 16:04

Oh jeez what a Horrible situation

Do you have a case worker you could discuss it with?

I hope you can move. It sounds like you need a good clean fresh start away from your asshole ex's family.

I also hope you get a good outcome on your court case

Hannabee123 · 08/05/2018 16:19

I've not asked my solicitor or anyone yet I guess I just wanted to test the water on here first and see if anyone had any advice / similar situation of packing up and running.
He must have money because he's affording court, solicitors, harassing me and contact centres and trips away nearly all the time.
My income isn't great still on maternity leave and unable to go back to my job as it's 50 miles away and on a couple of benifits to help. I have a little in savings but I'm trying to stash away as much as I can whilst at my parents and hopefully make a move somewhere but I just don't want it to be here or anywhere near him.
I just want to live in peace.

I had a feeling that would be the case. If he had to have access enforced even meeting half way would be atleast 5 hours drive which I just can't afford to do regularly. This absolutely sucks Sad

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Soubriquet · 08/05/2018 16:50

If the judge deems him dangerous towards your child, surely he doesn't get access?

RedHelenB · 08/05/2018 17:03

He is the baby's father and what concerns the costs are the best interest of the baby. I would wait until access is sorted out before considering a move, particularly as you now have the support of your mum.

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