My DP has his final hearing on contact soon. He's really quite worried about how it will go, and I would like to be there to support him. However, I'm also aware that it might be seen as provocative/insensitive to the 'other side' and possibly even to the magistrates/judges, if they did happen to notice. I wasn't the OW or anything but the DC's mum has made it clear consistently that I am seen as an enemy. I don't want to do anything that would inflame the situation.
Any thoughts?