3 years ago I exited a roundabout and was hit by a white van on the left passenger side of the car. After impact I was fully off the roundabout and he was partially on/off the roundabout. I have no idea where he came from until impact to my left and I entered and exited the roundabout as normal using indicators. When my car stopped post impact my indicator was still on, so I am sure of this.
I called the police at the scene as he was very angry and shouting and they didn’t attend as there were no injury’s and stupidly at his command I moved my car to the side of the road to clear the main road before taking by pictures of the scene.
I called my insurers at the side of the road and processed the claim. I heard very little for 2 years, a year ago their legal firm called to say I had to go to court and to fill in a form. I did so as requested and I know the offered a 50/50 settlement which they rejected. I heard very little again and tuesday last week, I find myself in court.
I have never been to court and 30 mins before it started, I met a solicitor I had never seen before who told me to give evidence, leave and she would call me later the same day with an outcome.
When I walked in the room sheer panic took over, the judge didn’t have all the case evidence, the other driver and her were disagreeing on something and he made a point of making faces at me when I was in the room with him.
I couldnt really get the oath out of my mouth, sat down and was handed a google map picture of the roundabout and in the panicked state I then went on to describe what was on the google map, not what happened. So stupid. The defence lawyer jumped on it and said I had lied and was wasting everyone’s time, I couldn’t answer some of his questions as I genuinely couldn’t remember some points. I did disagree with him (I was very polite but obviously anxious) and said I didn’t cause the accident and that I was mistaken earlier in the statement, he wouldn’t let me look at the map again and so on. My solicitor let me clarify later and I apologised to the judge from my error. I was told I was free to go and honestly, I fled as quick as I could.
it was awful. 5 days on I have heard nothing from anyone on it. I have left messages with the legal firm and nothing.
So, I am sure I have lost the case due to the poor performance on my part and I am prepared to pay the £1400 for the damage to my car. I can’t afford it, but I am prepared to do this as I was that bad in court.
Now I am terrified, I have no decision 5 days on and think it’s bad news and from their accusation of lying in or before court, (I didn’t lie) and now I am doubting my memory of what happened as I can’t think clearly as I can’t sleep.
I am worried that due to my panic and due to my evidence being all over the place, I would have been seen as trying to make a fraudulent claim. I have never made any insurance claims before and I only have seen horror stories on line.
I am literally hiding in the house waiting on a knock on the door from the police to charge me with fraud, that no one will insure me again meaning no car and if charges with fraud I will lose my financial job.
How can I deal with this proactively and get my anxiety under control? Any advice or shared experience would be great.