I am in the middle of a divorce, fdr due next month.
At 1st hearing judge was highly negative about my costs to date.They had felt high to me and way outside the estimates the solicitor had given.I have also been advised by another solicitor (friend of a friend, very experienced family law solicitor) that they are double what would be expected at this stage.He is in London, I am in lower cost area.
I have tried to discuss costs with my solicitor and she has no real answer other than I am the applicant and "judges always say costs are too high". She says that as the value of joint assets is high (pensions and house) costs are not too disportionate but I don't think higher value on a house should drive up legal costs, especially as there is no dispute about house value.Ex is a very high earner but unwilling to pay more than the csa limit which is much lower than his actual salary, so that why we are off to court.
Other than finances there are no other disputes and the 15k bill, at fda stage, does not cover pension valuation costs or counsel for hearings.No offers have been negotiated as without pension my solicitor says its not worth it, which I understand.
My finances are very straightforward and I have completed all paperwork as requested.
I just wonder how best to handle this, last hearing the judge was really aggressive about my costs and I fear for a repeat at FDR as I appear litigious which is absolutely not the case.My ex's solicitor sends lots of letters and I have chosen not to engage if it doesn't reference finances.Despite this his bill was 50% of mine so it does feel strange.
My friend at the same firm had much lower costs (different solicitor) despite finances and contact being disputed.I asked the paralegal, who prepares invoices, and she said my solicitor charges differently.
Just not sure where to go with this.I want to be fair to my solicitor but so many other data references suggests my costs are out of line.
Any thoughts on how to handle this?