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Sciatica

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mlp3282 · 23/08/2017 15:36

I suddenly had (my first ever) onset of sciatica around 5 weeks before I was due to go on holiday. When I eventually went on holiday I had gradually weaned off the painkillers but was still having up and downs and was seeing a chiropractor (private) weekly. I drove to holiday (something I could not have done when sciatica was bad) and on the first evening I was kneeling on the floor doing up my daughters shoes in the club on site and a big man who had been sat behind me with several members of his family decided to stretch in his seat and lean back. The chair broke and he and the chair landed flat on my back pushing me to the ground. One lady with him said to me do you need help getting up. The man thought she was talking to him and answered her. She said "get up Paul you are drunk". Again they asked if I wanted help getting up as I had two small children with me but I explained I needed to just stay still for a minute as I had recently had sciatica and did not want it to flare up again. After a few minutes I left the room in the club but I was really in a lot of pain and was quite shocked by what had happened and that my children had witnessed it. I went to the bouncer on the way out and explained what had happened. He took me through to a back room. He got the receptionist to come and have a look. She looked at my back and said yes there is a definite mark there I will get an ice pack. She asked where I had been sitting and if I knew who the guy was. I described where I had been sitting and that he was called Paul and was with a very large group. The bouncer "went off to find them" whilst the reception lady went for the ice pack. They came back together, handed me the ice pack and said "we cannot help you anymore". I found the wife of the man who fell on me a few days later and the said "was it your husband who hurt me on Saturday and she said yes "this is the lady (to her son) who Paul fell on. She told me his full name. I had been to casualty (albeit days later when i could eventually drive) and had in fact trapped another nerve so I went to the Club and made an official complaint in writing. The club had found out the man had several vans on site so spent a lot of money at this club so the club felt they should protect him so they started saying he had tripped and several other excuses however his wife backed me up. My question is should my complaint be against the club or the person who fell on me?
Sorry for the long winded post ;). Thank you if anyone can give me any advice. I just want some help with medical costs of further chiropractic treatment.

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TheHodgeoftheHedge · 23/08/2017 15:40

I really feel for your pain with your sciatica but I'm honestly not sure what there is to complain about. It was an accident?! He didn't mean to fall on you or for the chair to break. I'm sorry you got hurt, but I'm not exactly sure what resolution you're expecting here. Unless I am missing something?

mlp3282 · 23/08/2017 15:49

Really the fact the club refused to call an ambulance which they should have done and really should have spoken to him. they also should have put it in the accident book which they still have not done to this date. The manager was asked to contact me several times and was "off sick" and yet his car was in the car park! I just feel they should have handled this better. The venue was a family orientated environment in fact it was right next to the under 5s soft play area and most licences for this type of venue do not allow for the level of drunkenness that was involved. But for his actions I would be healed from sciatica now and would have been able to use my toes that I now cannot. But for his actions I would not have been injured and but for the clubs actions I could have been treated medically immediately.

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TheHodgeoftheHedge · 23/08/2017 16:25

Ok, you didn't say they refused to call an ambulance. You said you were already leaving when you told the bouncer and we're then treated with ice packs. If it was that bad, why didn't you call an ambulance rather than wait several days?
Btw, how do you know they haven't put it in the accident book? It does sound like they haven't responded in an appropriate manner, and again I really do feel for your pain and injury. But I'm honestly not sure you're going to get anything else out of this. It sounds, from what you've said, an accident that could have happened anywhere, anytime. But perhaps a call to CAB would be helpful?!

PersianCatLady · 24/08/2017 00:09

As painful and annoying as this was it does sound to me like it was an accident.

It also doesn't sound (to me) as if an ambulance was really necessary when you managed to walk away from the club.

I don't mean to sound harsh but what are you expecting to get from pursuing this??

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