Has anyone been through a child arrangement order court hearing?
I've had one court hearing but the father didn't turn up so it has been rescheduled basically the reason I stop contact between my dd and her father because I found out he had been taking her to sell drugs to people so immediately phoned social services (which was extremely hard don't know why but I felt so ashamed) he's now taking me to court because he's denying it all I've since found out that he is driving round with out a license he also introduced my dd to 2 previous partners when he was having her on weekends and he was having what ever girl he was with at the time bathing her, getting up with her threw the night and then lying to me about it even though when we split up we both agreed that we wouldn't introduce lili to any of our partners until we knew it was serious.. I feel betrayed hurt angry and most of all concerned.. he's recently been coming up to see her under my supervision as I still believe it is important for my dd to have some sort of relationship with her dad but he's started becoming really inconsistent and only coming up every now and again but then saying I'm stopping him from seeing her again
Really I just want reassurance I'm doing the right thing and maybe know how other people have got through this sort of thing. 