I know some MNers think making any enquiry about a will makes you 'grabby', but I'm getting to the stage that I've got to stop being terribly 'British' and polite about this and do something about it.
Just don't know what / how to start, and am looking for any advice.
Over 18 months ago, a person died, left money (no house sale) to be divided equally between 5. All friendly at small funeral, exchanging contact details etc as realised we are now 'the older generation' and no longer have anyone else to pass on news of each other, etc.
The 5 people (cousins) aren't close, but equally no 'history' of bad blood or falling out previously. One of 5 is executor and told others he wanted to let solicitors deal with it, and felt spending a couple of £K on that was well worth it as none of us really knew what we were doing and didn't have time nor expertise. Other 4 all happy with that.
Other 4 still not heard anything about the will. Person who died was a very efficient, organised person, no dementia, no reason we can see for anything to be complicated. It was the executor who told others it was split evenly between 5.
Have been trying to contact the exectutor person on and off (not about the will, but about visiting, as another relative now living with them- although they wouldn't know that I suppose) for a year now, on and off. They never pick up phone nor reply to texts. One number is now 'disconnected' + the other says 'Phone is switched off' and there is no facility to leave a message.
Person who lives closest went to visit, and has recently discovered the executor person has moved house (presumably taking the other elderly relative!) and none of other 4 have been told a forwarding address (or the fact they moved).
What can the other 4 do ?
(The one who has disappeared isn't on FB or any other social media that I can see).
Can anyone give any advice as to where we start?
Partly because we'd like to visit the other relative, but of course, I'd be lying if I didn't also want to know what happened to the money.
Thanks