I'm new here found while researching divorce, we separated 2 half years ago, my ex was always adamant that we would sort out the financial stuff between us , we didn't want to sell the house as we both agreed it would be better to keep it and find me somewhere to rent, youngest son left for university, and no way was ex moving out , was extremely reluctant to split , it was my decision after years of unreasonable behaviour, we lived separately for a year in marital home but he became unbearable always entering my bedroom and bed constantly requesting physical contact! I was offered a room rent free st a friends. Husband had constantly said we had not enough money for me to move, I moved out and sorted my finances out from my business which husband had had control of keeping me with no money, he has nothing to do with my business now, after supposedly being heartbroken and devastated at my leaving he quickly found a girlfriend and moved on changed his job of 30 years! Has luxury holidays which apparently we couldn't afford generally living the high life. While not proceeding with any financial disclosure or helping things get settled, my solicitor gave him a time line to move him on , which he replied with he wants mediation, total shock as he spent 2 years saying he would sort it out! His new girlfriend is a criminal lawyer! Her firm are representing him . He said he has been strongly advised to take mediation. This is only a brief !! Part of my situation basically he doesn't want me to have anything except my small still growing business, which my daughter is a half partner in . I have health issues ongoing long term treatment and have had to employ extra staff to cover my absence. Any mediation help advice please ? nervous wreck !!