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Refusal to return keys

9 replies

JohnnyMarr · 05/05/2017 18:46

I recently separated from my STBXH. Over the last 10 years or so he has had the use of a garage owned by my DM FOC.

Following our separation my DM gave him a three month grace period to remove his crap from the garage. He has now done so but is refusing to hand over the key in a bid to bully me in to communicating with him as I have gone NC.

Is anyone able to offer me any advice as to the legal implications of this? Obviously in a worst case scenario DM could get the locks changed but I am infuriated at the prospect of her incurring costs solely due to his twattery.

Thanks in advance for any help.

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MrsBertBibby · 05/05/2017 19:38

Just change the lock. Even if he returns keys, they can be copied.

ComtesseDeSpair · 05/05/2017 21:02

Agree, just change the lock. Don't make this a bigger deal than it needs to be. He clearly wants a reaction and contact from you, it's not worth the hassle of sending him recorded letters asking for return of the keys by X date or you'll escalate, all for the sake of a few pounds on a new lock. Technically you could make a police report that he's withholding property, but I can only imagine they'll just tell you to change the lock as well.

HarrietSchulenberg · 05/05/2017 21:18

If you don't want the expense of changing the lock, install a sturdy padlock over the top. Cheaper and will do the same job for now.

CotswoldStrife · 05/05/2017 21:22

Agree with changing the lock. You don't have to attend every argument you are invited to, and this is one certainly worth ignoring!

Collaborate · 06/05/2017 07:56

If you don't want the expense of changing the lock, install a sturdy padlock over the top. Cheaper and will do the same job for now.

A new barrel for the lock will probable cost the same as a padlock and latch.

I agree you should change the lock.

Ceto · 06/05/2017 08:03

If you don't want your DM to incur costs, organise and pay for it yourself.

SavoyCabbage · 06/05/2017 08:04

I changed the barrels on my locks myself after reading how to do it on MN. It was really easy.

Snowkitty · 06/05/2017 09:24

Could the lock be swapped with another one, perhaps elsewhere in the house or if it's a different type, (ours are), maybe ask a friend or neighbour if they'd mind swapping?

SoupDragon · 06/05/2017 09:26

I agree. Change the lock, don't tell him.

You'll never be certain he hasn't copied the keys.

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