Hello. I am interested in hearing from anyone out there who has been in a similar situation to me and what the outcome was. I am divorcing my H myself - he left me and our 2 year old just after Christmas. He's now seeing another woman at work. Got the decree nisi last week. My solicitor is helping with the financial side and soon my H and I will be exchanging Form Es. My worry is that I don't think my husband and I are going to be able to agree matters between ourselves in order to get a consent order drawn up. He wants to sell the marital home which my son and I are still living in - H is currently with parents. Obviously, I want to stay. There is not enough equity, even if I kept it all, for me to go and get another mortgage on my own. I work 3 days a week and look after my son the other 2. I really do not want this to end up in court because the fees will be massive and it's not like we have a big estate - the only asset we have is the marital home (a three bed semi). I will only be able to stay if he pays me some sort of spousal support for a time but he is absolutely adamant that he won't have to and is angry as hell about it. I'm 46 and he's 35 so he has more earning years ahead of him and he earns double my salary. I know it's all about basic needs and I would only need a couple of hundred from in (in addition to child maintenance) to basically get by, but a judge isn't going to kick us out, is he/she?? Anyone out there been in a similar position?