Just wondering if anyone has any advice for me. My ex and I split up six years ago and to start with we had a really amicable agreement - he has contact every other weekend and takes my DD out for a meal every wednesday. He's got open access and can see her for special events etc, pick her up early if they're going somewhere etc and can ring / Skype whenever he wants. He's recently remarried and has now decided he's in the position to go for 50/50. He lives close enough to take her to school but after 6 years I don't see how it's in DD favour to change the agreement. Since meeting his new partner he's gradually stopped communication with me and DD isn't allowed to contact me whilst she's in his care unless she's with him for a week or more and then she's allowed 1 phone call. I'd be up for mediation but have recently given up work so we would get into serious debt if we did and I can't get legal aid. DD is very worried about this (he told her she's moving in with him) and also doesn't want to be split up from her 2 siblings. He's a lawyer so knows what he's doing. Any advice gratefully received! I just don't want her life turned upside down because he's now finally settled down - he also won't let her continue with the groups and playdates she has on the days he has her. Thanks for any help at all!