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Advice for emotionally abused friend please, regarding child support

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3littlebadgers · 18/01/2017 10:36

Is there anyone who can advise please?

Long story short, my lovely lovely friend escaped her emotionally abusive ex.

He is very manipulative and tried desperately to get back in to their lives. Friend very cooperative in assisting with contact with DC,s (2).

He is on well paid salary, Recently friend made the comment that she was saving money to take the children to see family. He now claims he has lost his job which we believe he is just saying as an excuse to put her in finacial difficulty again. Friend moved away to escape him in at the height of abuse and is very much alone in current location. So he has in effect closed off her support system too. Is there anyway we can find out for sure if he did indeed loose his job? She is too frightened to ask him outright for proof.
Thanks

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MrsBertBibby · 18/01/2017 11:36

If she and he are both in the UK, she just needs to go to the CMS.

Leatherboundanddown · 18/01/2017 11:43

Use the CMS and have no contact with him about money at all. Just refuse to engage.

They will set it up and if he refuses they will take from his wages and add 20%

3littlebadgers · 18/01/2017 19:44

Thanks Flowers

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