Ok so this is a long one, but hoping there's someone here who can help?
DH's aunt owned a house all her life, mortgage was paid off years ago. She wrote a will (between 5-10 years ago, not sure of date) to say that she wanted her house to go to her DB (so my FIL). 2 years ago she spoke to FIL and told him that she would really actually love the house to be left to DH, me and our DS. (FIL was more than happy for this to happen, he was actually planning on giving us the house anyway if anything were to happen to her). Anyway, she never got round to changing her will to state this because she got ill, and long story short, she passed away 12 months ago. So FIL inherited the house, but gave us the keys. We've spent the last 10 months completely renovating it, we've spent £60k doing this.
We sold our house, moved in here 4 weeks ago and FIL said that he'd now start the process of signing it over. Fast forward to today, and his solicitor has informed him that if he signs it over now, we'll have to pay 40% inheritance tax. So he's been advised to keep it in his name for the next 7 years, but to change his will to state that if anything happens in those 7 years, then the house comes to us. Does this sound right? I basically want to know if there's any way round this? Because as it stands, I now have nothing to my name (apart from a little bit of money that we made from sale of our old house). And I'm just thinking, if me and DH were to divorce (FYI we are happily married and I really don't think we will), I would literally be left with nothing. So would I be crazy to pay money towards bills and living costs here, when in reality I could be left with sod all?