Hi, sorry thank you.
It's basically my mil has started talking about leaving her house to my son (so bypassing my dh - her son - completely). Not sure why she maybe doesn't want to leave it to dh, as contact is good and regular etc, but it is her decision and hers to give to whomever she chooses. We do know that.
However she thinks it would be great to leave it to ds so it can be rented out and he could then earn an income from it. He's 7 atm. I am worried that she could say it has to be rented out in her will. I don't think she has thought through all the implications for us if she did this. For example I don't think she realises the income would be subject to tax, who would pay for any initial costs or solicitors fees/trust fees or agency fees as dh and I won't be able to afford those. The house is the asset so no other money to be left to anyone else.
There would be no one else living in the house after she has died.
Someone she knows is a landlord and I think this is making her think that anyone can be a landlord. But forgetting that they don't work, so that's there only job and income etc. I have personal issues with a child being left a house, if she dies in 20 years he would be 27 and hopefully be in a position to made good decisions, if she dies whilst ds is still a child - that's a lot to inherit at 18.
I also know that one of her siblings recently passed who had 3 adult children, one of which still lived in the family house. They cannot afford to buy out the other 2 (house was left to all 3) so she is upset that the house will have to be sold and they will have to move out.
She is prone to thinking out loud and can be quite opinionated on what she "thinks is right". It maybe me worrying over nothing.
Thank you, sorry, that was an essay!