My father-in-law died last year. DP only living relative.
Hadn't been in contact for years as FIL left him as a child.
DP became aware FIL was in a home & hospital near us and visited him for last few months of his life.
FIL died having been in a care home for @ 6-8 weeks before he died.
No care home fees were paid.
FIL died with no will.
DP registered death.
DP was able to collect a cheque from FIL bank - close account.
Amount @£2000
We organised a direct cremation (no funeral as no one to come). Used the money from bank to pay this.
State pension was overpaid and claimed back for one week DP sent that money back.
Now four months later council contacted asking for nearly £5,000 to cover care home fees.
DP sent statement from bank and funeral invoice. But they are still requesting full amount.
There should be £800 to pay them but unfortunately DP is an addictive gambler and has gambled money away (yes stupid and I asked him to give me at the beginning ).
I have tried ringing the council but get no where.
Any advice please