I'd really appreciate some advice on a probate question.
DM recently passed away unexpectedly. DF died several years ago without a will, so we obtained letters of administration. The estate was under the IHT threshold (just) and in theory the estate was divided in accordance with the intestacy rules. However, my siblings and I decided to leave our share of the estate in an account held in DM's and my names. We did this because DM would have need of the money eventually (to meet medical needs), but we were all skint students so we wanted to keep the money safe. Over the past few years the majority of the money belonging to DM in that account has been spent, so the majority of funds are the portion allocated to me and my siblings under the intestacy rules.
I now need to sort DM's estate (again, intestate, sigh ...). Is it going to be acceptable to explain how the majority of the balance in this joint account actually belongs to me and my sibs, or is this going to create a headache? Would really appreciate any advice anyone can offer, thanks.