I need some advice about whether to let this go or not - I don't know if I am perhaps being pathetic so help would be appreciated.
5yo DD. Separated when she was 2mo. Court 4 times. EOW arrangement going ok. Ex was abusive, physically and emotionally. Won't go into it all.
He puts people down, constantly, which is what he did to me our whole relationship. Very controlling. He tells our daughter she can be a nurse, not a dr, calls her big etc.
He has put a picture on social media calling her a chav. (He thinks he's posh and fancy basically & that I'm not). I have correspondence with his solicitor for other matters & said how disappointed I am & how I'd like it removed. It's not funny & is just a pattern of his behaviour putting others down which also includes his own DD.
In the reply he has said the photo will remain. He will not delete it as he doesn't deem it offensive.
It makes me cry! Perhaps I'm over reacting but I just want to protect my DD from him. So. So I drop it? Or do I pursue it because it's a disgusting illustration of his behaviour towards her. Need to work out if I can afford to speak to a solicitor so thought I'd post here first to see if people think it's worth it or not.
Thanks very much for reading!