It's a really long story. The short version is my husband and his ex partner own a house which has been on the market for sale for the past 3 years, since they split up.
In the time leading up to them separating, the agreement was that she would pay the mortgage and upkeep on that property (about £250 a month) and he would take on responsibility for another property they owned as it was much more of an outlay.
He paid her out of that house and took on sole ownership. The second house, in Scotland, was £20k in negative equity so they decided to keep hold of it until it reached it's mortgage value. Without telling my husband, she stopped paying the mortgage and let it out to a tenant. The tenant vandalised it, practically stripping it of everything except the plaster on the walls. His ex kept below the radar and wouldn't acknowledge responsibility for the house, even withholding her new address. She changed her name.
We knew nothing about it until a Sheriff knocked on our door demanding the unpaid mortgage which we paid and we went to court to overturn a repossession order. We've paid the mortgage ever since. My husband went up to the property, 600 miles from us, to discover it totally wrecked. The ex refused to contribute towards the repairs. She won't contribute towards the mortgage or any of the standing charges or council tax.
My husband is a builder so repaired the house himself, over the course of several visits to the property. We want 50% of the cost of the mortgage payments, legal fees, repair costs and upkeep on the property until it's sold. If it sold today, it would still be at least £20k in negative equity. She has assets overseas which she is hiding.
She won't provide her address but has said, in writing, that all correspondence should be sent to her son's house. I'm hoping that's sufficient to process the application.
Sorry for the short version of a very long saga.