Friend and I took her disabled son to a big park exhibition yesterday at a country house estate. Friend has a big wheelchair adapted van. No disabled spaces near the stately home part so we parked a long way off but still had to pay £5 for 2 hours. Not wheelchair or buggy (we had both) friendly so it took ages on rough paths to get to the exhibition and we needed a cold (£2 a can!) drink when we got there. By the time we got back it was 2 1/2 hours and there was number plate recognition as we left.
We are expecting a fine 
What is our legal position? We were told in Norfolk on holiday that disabled drivers get 1/2 grace there and it certainly takes that time just to get the wheelchair etc out and set up.
I am trying to phone the park owners to see what they say but not answering.
Should we let them take us to court if we get fined?