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Can ex legally still take more furniture from MY house?

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Miri2007 · 23/08/2015 10:47

Split with ex partner 2 years ago - not married.
Mortgage was in joint names, house was originally put on market.
He gets inpatient as living with new GF and wants to move on, so HE suggests he signs the house over to me.

As there was not much equity and original deposit was mine the house was signed over with no transfer of money. I had a solicitor and am happy he has no case for future claim on the house.

We agreed to split the furniture, a list was drawn up on email, he collected what was 'his' except a few items of larger furniture. The larger items were left as a) he had no where to put them, and b) he owed me £500 so it was agreed the furniture would stay as insurance against his debt (all documented on email).

eventually he paid me £100 and took one item of furniture.

He then contacted me and said he wasn't go to pay anymore and the rest of the furniture was mine if I cancelled his debt. I agreed - this was via text message.

Fastforward a few months and I get contact out the blue saying he is coming to take XY and Z. I tell him he cant, its my house and I have changed the locks and I have written agreement all remaining furniture is mine. He is now saying that if I'm going to play it like that he has taken legal advice (from a friend) and is going for 50% of everything I now have.

He has trouble managing money, he sold everything he originally took and I imagine has run outta cash and that's why he is trying to take more to sell.

Does he have a leg to stand on?

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Berthatydfil · 23/08/2015 11:22

I doubt it very much - you legally had the house signed over, and have an agreement the contents are yours.
I very much doubt he has any right to the remainder of the furniture he left let alone 50% of what you have now.

caroldecker · 23/08/2015 11:31

His rights in law are what is agreed between the 2 of you as you were not married. You have agreed the current position so he can get nothing.

Miri2007 · 23/08/2015 11:35

Thanks Bertha,

Logically I agree, but its difficult to see clearly when you are being threatened.

His argument is he is getting legal advice from a friend and its not going to cost him anything, but I will have a massive legal bill if I try and fight him so I should just hand everything over - this is him doing me a favour!

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Miri2007 · 23/08/2015 11:37

Thanks Carol.

That's what I thought, he could have a case if he could prove ownership but he cant. In fact I can prove that some of the things here were bought by me, but the rest was from a joint account. However he's already taken his share and agreed the rest is mine.

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Gruach · 23/08/2015 11:42

He says he has a friend - a barrister or solicitor - who would ultimately be prepared to deal with paperwork and appear in court on his behalf for free?

Hah!

DoreenLethal · 23/08/2015 11:42

I'd only respond with 'see you in court then'.

And block him from further contact. Don't respond to anything.

Miri2007 · 23/08/2015 11:47

Thanks all,

Feeling a bit more reassured. Yes, he has a friend who is a solicitor. Obviously not a very good one as where on earth have they got 50% entitlement from?

Already responded with similar Doreen, just still playing on my mind that he might know something that I don't about his rights.

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Clutterbugsmum · 23/08/2015 12:56

Don't forget he would have told his friend his version of what's happened. I'm betting he hasn't mentioned the agreements he made with you.

AlisonWunderland · 23/08/2015 14:41

Just send him copies of the emails where you agree to waive the debt return for him, conceding claim on furniture.
Suggest he shows that to his "solicitor", I'm sure his friend will advise him to drop it

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