I finally plucked up the courage to phone a firm of solicitors today and try to make an appointment.
I rang the firm that did our conveyancing about 15 years ago, as I trust them and they are a large company with many specialities.
They were unable to see me without written permission from my husband because of a possible conflict of interest - due to the conveyancing.
Why? It was 15years ago..... or is there likely to be more to this?