hi there, my partner & I are joint members of a small local charity Historic garden group, which has around 100 people on their "books" in our city. We've been members of this group for around 5 years.
In the last few months, another person who is also a member of this charity turned up at my house, unsolicited and not for any specific charity related business, he just mentioned that he had recently moved to the area. Neither of us has given him our address details.
This person is rather 'creepy' and I feel uncomfortable being with him on my own. Apparently he has also turned up at a couple of other women's houses, uninvited. I am unsure if he got their details or whether he knew where they lived already.
I decided to challenge this person about how he knew where we lived (after checking with my partner who was equally surprised at him 'tipping up' at our doorstep). He informed me that one of the charity committee members had given him my address from the charity member records and given it to him. He (and clearly the guy who gave him our details) did not appear to think there was anything wrong with this....
Any suggestions about how I can raise this so that my complaint is not minimised? I understand the committee member might have thought they were being friendly/helpful in providing the information but I feel like my privacy has been sacrificed at the expense of someone wanting new contacts/anothers negligence.
This is a very small charity there are no employed staff, all roles are held by volunteers. Trustee, committee members related training appears to be absent.
What would you do?