To be pissed? I'm sure this is illegal!!

[WrappedInABlankie]

I'll have to be brief due to being cyber stalked by this man...

I'm currently in a court battle going for a non-mol, lots of EA, DA, Rape, Cyberstalking.

he's included evidence from the HMPO (PP office) stating i got a PP by fraud for my DC. In his evidence he's mistakenly included a letter that is addressed to ME at his address! so;

Ms (never been a Ms always a Miss (only 22) WrappedInABlankie
EX-P house number and street
EX-P city
EX-P postcode

I've NEVER lived with him, ever and he puts that in his statement. He knows my address (hence part of the reason we're going to court the letter is dated just over 5 weeks ago admitted in his statement he's known my current address for 6 months) he has obviously lied to the PP Office so I wouldn't know what he was doing and it was obviously intended for me as has my full name in the address window, he's done this knowing I won't get it.

Isn't this crap illegal? Surely you can't do this, what else has been having sent to his address that is meant to be from me!? AIBU to be fucking pissed and seriously creeped out?!

What is a PP and did you get one fraudulently or has he done this to make it look like you did?

PassPort. No legitimate Uk parent, getting a UK passport for a child, renewal of child passport as had name changed before he had PR he doesn't like this and has spent nearly a year trying to get it cancelled which they obviously won't do.

The fact is I've rang them numerous times and they've said they'd contact me in any event of a investigation. He's given them his address for my name when asking for my address knowing it isn't where I live so I wouldn't know what he was doing!

I don't really understand a lot of this due to the abbreviations (sorry), but if you're going through the courts, can you not ask your solicitor about this, or are you representing yourself?

The pasport oficc has mistakenly sent a letter to you at your exP's address, at his behest? Have i got that right?
Call the passport office again to say the address they sent previous communications to was wrong and follow that up with a confirmation in writing. Also explain that the wrong address was given to them maliciously.

I was suppose to receive the letter. He has made sure I can't by giving the wrong address on purpose knowing obviously I'd never see it because i have to have be contacted due to being the person whom applied for the passport for my DC.

You seem to be saying that his evidence includes a claim that you fraudulently applied for passports. As evidence of this claim, he includes a letter from the passport office that was addressed to you, at his home. He has also given evidence that you've never lived at his home.

I'd say his evidence has just outed him as a crazy stalker :) POint this out to the court, obviously.

Do, please, re-confirm with the passport people as outlined above.
If your application was legit, he can call it fraudulent as much as he likes. It wasn't.

Gralick exactly that!!

He's also taken post off the Internet and saying I've posted them! post I've never made nor seen before and have no name, location Ect! in this he's shown himself to have made an account, logged onto these sites and actively searched for things that could be passed off as me. he then goes on to deny cyber stalking me!

I'm so sick of this the police take no action what so ever on him!

WEll, no, he doesn't need to have done all that. Anybody can copy posts off forums like this, and say they're from the Queen posting as Gralick
It doesn't prove anything, except that the person saying it has a lively imagination.

It's pretty normal to think you've seen posts by your ex, if you're still obsessing over them. All it shows is that he's - er, obsessing over you.

Is he then going on to harass you about the things he thinks you've done, based on random internet posts?

He's told the court. He couldn't possibly of raped me due to a post he got off yahoo answers which someone states they had a dream about being sexually assaulted and it wasn't there ex . The post where it has no name, photo, location, just a '?' For a name with private information.

He's gone to such lengths to stalk me over the internet he's even made post and accounts up and been caught out it's tiring to say the least I'm having to get rid of my computer as it appears he's put spyware on it he's double my age fgs

So the guy is your dc dad? I'm confused re the passport issue.

Don't think he's foit anything he can use against you tho if he's tampering with your mail etc and saying he never lived w/you and using random internet posts as his defence.

Gosh I thought this thread was you asking whether it was illegal for you to be pissed in charge of children (probably).

But now I see you're asking if YABU to be pissed off that your ex is manufacturing false evidence against you to support his case in court - well obviously you're NBU about that! Have you told your solicitor? You say the police won't do anything - seems unlikely - if you're a victim of DV, then have you spoken to their DV unit, have you had a word with Women's Aid, to see if they have any useful advice?

I would do that, at least. Phone Women's Aid. See what they say. And tell your solicitor.

Passport issue is clear:
The ex has a letter in his possession addressed to the OP at the ex's address. The OP has never lived at the ex's address, and would never have given that address herself to the Passport Office. Therefore any letter going to her at the ex's address is due to HIM giving his address, pretending to be her, in some fraudulent fashion.

Well, he sounds like a sad fuck and not very well in the head. I'm sure it is very tiring!

He's using random internet posts as his defence against a charge of rape? The cops will have a field day I bet they find him tiring as well.

Have you tried asking a computer shop to clear spyware & keyloggers off your machine? Might be cheaper than getting a new one.

I hope you're not replying to any of his communications.

Also, if you haven't got anyone helping you with the court, please do find someone to go through things clearly with you. Weird exes can mess with your head so you can't think straight - happened to me.
The CAB might be good, if you still have one where you live.
Or try Rights Of Women, they offer a free advice service.

YY to Women's Aid, too, and the police DV officer :)

Hi there WrappedInABlankie

We're just going to move this to Legal Matter, as it seems to be the best place for it.

Thanks Kate

well I called 101 this am just to log it with the other issues I have with him and she was 90% sure it was illegal due to it being him falsifying information with the intention to deprive me of mail, especially with the passport office. Got given a crime reference number and contacted my solicitor.

She actually missed this (he submitted to much it was easy to miss) all he's done is given us enough of his own evidence to use against him.

Now I'm in the middle of communication with the passport office asking how on earth this has been able to happened.

Good, glad the action you took has had some good outcomes! Sounds like he's really screwed himself up this time.

I'm hoping that now we can start action to prosecute him for harassment, stalking and cyberstalking.