Dear All
I wondered if anyone had any experience of Declaration of Trusts when buying a property with a partner (both divorced, both have children from previous marriages). It does sound unromantic and takes the excitement out of the whole process, but having both been bitten before we want to do everything right this time when it comes to finances. SO, this is the scenario:
I have a property which I’m going to sell, he is in rented. The equity in my property is around £172,000. I was going to put a £100k into a joint property and put £25k into savings (any ideas where would be gratefully received) for each of my sons (10 & 5) and £10k in savings for myself. This means that a) they will have the money for when they’re older, house deposit etc but also b) if things were to go pear shaped with my partner I would have a deposit of £50k towards a new property (plus anything I have put into the new property upon it's sale). My partner will be putting in £30k, but as I work part time, he will be paying the bulk of the mortgage each month (he earns 3.25 x more than me), so say it’s £1700 per month, he will pay £1200 I will pay £500. This will also mean his share in the property will increase as he is paying more of the mortgage but my cash input is larger.
We are going to have a Declaration of Trust drawn up but there just seems to be SO many clauses to think about. If we split up can either of us force a sale? If we split do I get my £100k back plus a share in the equity? What does he get if his cash input is lower but his mortgage payments are higher? How do we split bills? Should we be joint owners or tenants in common? what about provisions for the children? (he has two as well, 11 & 9) should anything happen to us.
My Dad has said that surely it would be better to put ALL my money (including the savings I was going to put aside for my children into the house as it will grow more?) any thoughts on this?
Has anyone been in a similar situation? Any help would be great!