Last week dh was a passenger in a car which was stationery at a junction when the car behind who wasn't concentrated accelerated into them.
Dh & his colleague spent the afternoon in A & E. he is in a lot if pain & was off work the next day. GP says he has whiplash & a slipped disc. His colleague has a fracture & has been signed off for two weeks.
Dh is unable to drive & is on very string painkillers. His work is 40 miles from home & dd also goes to school there.
In order to get there & back his parents have been driving an 80 mile round trip twice a day to take him & dd which is unsustainable so we have arranged for dd to go into the boarding house for the next couple if weeks at a cost of £15 per night. (Shoukd be £30 we negotiated a discount) That means dh can get the train one way & his parents only have to do the journey once a day. The train would not get dd there on time.
This is a hell of a lot if expense we could do without. Dh shouldn't really be in work, he attended a staff meeting yesterday & his back seized up for example. He is likely to need physio & the dr says it will be about 6 weeks before he starts to feel better.
I'd assumed we could claim these costs back from the drivers insurance company but my mum told me there is a limit you can claim now because all the insurance claims were getting out of hand. She thinks it unlikely we will get dds boarding costs or dhs parents extra petrol money.
This is worrying me because we are spending money we haven't got in order to get dh to work & dd to school.
I have to both take ds to school close to home & get to work myself so i can't do the run myself. If dd came home on the train she would not get in til 8.45 each night & as I said before she would only get into school by 10.00am rather than 8.45am.
I know it was our choice for her to go to school so far away but it wasn't our choice for someone to drive so carelessly!