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stalking/intimidation

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arundtheworld123 · 24/10/2014 23:11

Hi all. I am desperatly seeking some advice regarding how to deal with stalking and intimidation. it sounds crazy but i have felt for the past year that this stalking is coming from a group/organisation/society. I have no idea why/who/what they want as I am a totally ordinary clean living, boringly normal single mum. Ever since i fell out with my cousin at her hen party as her and all her friends had spent the weekend mentally torturing me, iv had intimitely personal details that she knew, used against me and sneered at me by strangers and random people around the county where i live. it sounds crazy and its such a long story with so many details that i cant write them all but to cut it short I am convinced after her hen party away that she is involved in some sort of sex group or cult and is a very cold character with very cold and creepy friends, and a LOT of them. it was a very strange and creepy weekend with a lot of bullying and a strange group of hens who are my cousins friends, and also guys. i am now being followed when im in public places and especially when i go into supermarkets. this stalking is done in such a way as to seem as if they are trying to be discreet about their stalking when really they are letting me know theyre doing it, to cause me stress. its alway men in their average about early 40's who seem well connected and a large group as theres always new ones. they study my reactions to see how muh theyre nothering me and listen behind stalls as if to get a sense of me. i cant figure out who they are/what and if theyve been sent by my cousin and her group of psychopathic friends and their creepy sex group connections to bully me/intimidate me, or if theyre trying to break me and make me feel isolated in order to lure me in. I am aware this sound totally far fetched and unbelievable and crazy. iv been to the police and they were of no help, unsurprisingly. I would really just like some practical advice on how to deal with these people everyday and how to repel them away and get them to leave me alone. maybe i should try to ignore them? i have done this for a few months, smiling and not paying attention to who is around, being strong, but they dont go away. i am a totally sane, degree student, i would just like to know how to get these people away and make them disinterested. many thanks!

OP posts:
seagull70 · 24/10/2014 23:14

You need to call the police!

wannabestressfree · 24/10/2014 23:29

Oh dear lord Hmm

arundtheworld123 · 24/10/2014 23:35

I did this but they couldnt help me. the stalking/intimidation is done in such a way as there is nothing that i can pin on them. they just follow me around, stressing me out. letting me know im being followed whilst they retend to be hiding it, but really they want me to see im being followed. when i follow them around the shop for example, they walk away, and then come back or keep spying on me. theres alway more than one, usually two, sometimes three, so the others will keep foloowing me whilst the first goes to the till. this morning there was just one and he stood facing the till after he had finished paying, and pretended to be reading a brochure, whilst facing me and staring me out. iv got nothing to go on with the police apart from that. when i left the suoermarket the other day, really stressed, trying to hide it, with a 4year old having a tantrum, one of the men walked out of the shop past me, having spent the entire time in the shop just standing around pretending to be looking at things, bought absoultely nothing, and whilst my child was having a tantrum, he just laughed at me. yet again, nothing i can get the police to do about this. i need advice on how to repel these people.

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AlbaGuBrath · 24/10/2014 23:44

I'm really not trying to sound rude OP but your posts sound fairly erratic. Are you ok?

Stinchcombebabycafe · 16/01/2015 00:44

There is a new website giving advice, and links to further advice on stalking. It is run by very professional, qualified, experienced people.
They also have a questionnaire about stalking, but more importantly, how to gather and present evidence against stalkers. Definitely worth a look.
www.scaredofsomeone.org/
Basically, write down everything that happens as soon as possibly, with details.

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