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Estranged husband still staying at weekends

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njs6974 · 22/10/2014 19:51

My husband and I have been separated for a year now. I stayed in the marital home with our 2 daughters and he rents a flat about 30 miles away. He comes back to stay at weekends (much to my dislike) so he can be with our daughters. He states that he has every right to do this as he is a joint owner of the property and when I've asked him to stay somewhere else at weekends he just keeps saying that he 'has every right to do it'. He's even threatened to move back in! As I live there with the children do I not have the right to deny him access to the property? Separation is such a messy business!Confused

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Collaborate · 22/10/2014 20:38

You have no more right to exclude him than he does you.

babybarrister · 22/10/2014 21:19

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Greengrow · 24/10/2014 15:13

Would you like it if he made you live away during the week and were difficult about coming home at weekend? I thought not. Why just because he has a penis is he supposed to enjoy being excluded from his own house?

You need to do what I did - earn enough to remortgage and buy out his share of the property and get all that confirmed by the court in a consent order settling the divorce finances.

bearleftmonkeyright · 24/10/2014 15:23

Get legal advice op and commence divorce proceedings. Its the only way you can all move on. Good luck, sounds a very difficult situation.

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