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Any judges on here?? That could tell me if this would get a anti-harassment injunction??

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SickAndScaredOfThisHarassment · 05/10/2014 14:50

I have a 7 page word document detailing 42 points of harassment, emotional and domestic abuse.

My solicitor says because it's not a lot of things recently she won't even apply. but there is so much there. Can anyone else help? and tell me if i could get one with what i've documented so far?

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Icimoi · 05/10/2014 17:28

I'm not a judge, but you need to be able to demonstrate that there is a current danger of harassment. If what is in your document is mostly historic and the problem has tailed off, I suspect your solicitor is right.

SickAndScaredOfThisHarassment · 05/10/2014 17:43

Well just yesterday he posted on Facebook saying "if I think I can move with him know I'm wrong as he knows a lot of people"

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ChippingInLatteLover · 05/10/2014 17:44

Sorry, can you try that again as it makes no sense.

DrankSangriaInThePark · 05/10/2014 17:51

Have you got another thread on the same person OP? That your ex is still harassing you and you've been advised to send a cease and desist letter?

There are a few family lawyer bods/experts around, I'm sure one of them will be able to help you. You could put a callout for Spero or phrbridge (I can't quite remember her full MN name, but it's something like that)

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SickAndScaredOfThisHarassment · 05/10/2014 18:02

He said

"If you think you can move without me know. Wrong! I know a lot of people"

My solicitors won't send a letter or apply for a injunction

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STIDW · 05/10/2014 21:53

It really depends on the evidence you have and whether it can be corroborated. You would need to provide a whole exchange/conversation rather than rely on single quotes from messages or posts. Otherwise the evidence is open to suggestions of editing or being taken out of context. For example "If you think you can move without me know. Wrong! I know a lot of people" could have been written out of desperation by someone who doesn't know the whereabouts of their child and knows people who can help them find them legally.

IF he is posting on your Facebook page why don't you password protect it? On the other hand if he is posting on his own page you don't need to visit it and you could fall foul of the law yourself if you access his account when it is password protected, even if you know the password.

NoMoreDelays · 05/10/2014 22:03

Judges aren't allowed to post on Internet forums.

SickAndScaredOfThisHarassment · 05/10/2014 22:46

STIDW Half the evidence I have can be proved via emails and screen shots of texts etc. Other is what he's said to me via the phone or what he has done to me when others aren't around.

However I'm not posting on his facebook at all!!.

My facebook is password protected but you can't password protect pages where he post theses too! They are public pages. He has before hacked my password and been on my personal facebook page but i shut it down and made a new one.

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SickAndScaredOfThisHarassment · 05/10/2014 22:47

The people he has got to find me are not police men, SS, etc. They are normal people whom have no need to know where I live!

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DrankSangriaInThePark · 06/10/2014 06:16

OP- for traffic, why don't you post on the relationships section as well? There will probably be someone over there who has been in the same situation as you, so will know how best to proceed. Smile

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