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in a pregnancy pickle whilst divorcing

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christmasclean · 01/08/2014 09:01

I'm currently divorcing , with amicable agreement the teenage children and I are to stay in the house until youngest leaves college.
However a life changing thing has happened I'm pretty sure I could be pregnant by a new partner. ( far to early to do a test yet) any way now I'm worried, would he be able to move in with me? Or am I going to have to sell up now?
As I don't know for sure yet
I'm not going to ask my solicitor just yet. But I'm worrying and want facts.

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MsAnthropic · 01/08/2014 17:32

If it's far to early to test, it's far too early to be wondering about any of this.

If, and when, you actually get a positive pregnancy test and when you know what your and your new partner's plans are, then you should ask your solicitor who is the only person who can possibly advise what your arrangements say.

Viviennemary · 01/08/2014 17:36

I think you need to consult your solicitor. There will be an issue about who pays the mortgage I should imagine if your new partner moves in. I don't think many people divorcing would be very happy about this situation .

christmasclean · 04/08/2014 10:35

I pay the mortgage I pay everything . We have completely seperate lives. He doesn't have any input in our lives rarely sees the kids, he didn't want us. And just abandoned us.

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nomoretether · 04/08/2014 13:09

I agree it's way too early if you haven't even tested however the fact you pay the mortgage isn't always as straightforward as it seems. If you are pregnant, get proper advice.

babybarrister · 04/08/2014 13:39

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christmasclean · 05/08/2014 08:07

Okay thankyou , every one

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mom1983 · 05/08/2014 15:04

If you don't even know if you're pregnant then there is no issue.
And even if you are anything could happen with a pregnancy, not worth mentioning until your at least 10 weeks, not preconception.

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