My DH has just been issued with a Child Arrangement Order relating to contact with DSS.
The court case came about after DSS mum applied to court, late last year, to discharge the Contact Order that was in place, as she wanted DSS to choose if and when he saw DH (DSS is 11). DH disagreed with this, which she wasn't happy about, so she applied to court to discharge the order that had been in place for several years for 2 days/overnights a week contact. That order had never been fully complied with as DSS mum would often cancel contact at short notice, or cut it short. There was never quite enough for DH to apply to 'enforce' it though as contact usually happened, until last Autumn, when DSS mum said that DSS didn't want to come anymore and DH needed to wait until he was ready. DHs attempts to resolve the situation, with the schools support, resulted in DSS mum applying to court.
After a number of hearings, reports and reviews, a Child Arrangement Order has finally been issued. It states that DH is ordered to spend a minimum of 4 hours contact with DSS every other Saturday. There is nothing in the order that states that DSS mum must make DSS available for contact - yet the last contact order made it clear that DSS mum was subject to the order.
Am I right in thinking that if DSS Mum refuses to let DSS see DH (as she has done repeatedly in the the past), then DHs only recourse is to apply to vary the order? It doesn't seem to give DH the option to enforce it at all? Also, does DH have to see DSS at the times DSS mum dictates? If he is working at the time she suggests, for instance, will he be in breach of the order if he suggests a different time but DSS mum disagrees?
DSS quite openly states that he can only see DH when his mum lets him, and if his mum doesn't want him too, then he says that he won't see DH.
Both DH and DSS mum were self-representing, and the case was heard exclusively by magistrates if that is relevant.