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Need help-legal action against hospital? So unhappy

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Angryandneedsomehelp · 29/09/2013 22:14

Nearly 2 years ago I was sterilised and I feel the hospital pushed me with the 'decision' to have it done.

I had already had dcs and was pregnant again and at 34 was had an appt where sterilisation was suggested. I declined and this was recorded in capital letters in ante natal notes.

Couple of weeks later complications arose and I was an inpatient and on the second day in hospital the drs started suggesting very strongly that I got sterilised, I was scared, hormonal and not in my right mind but they pushed and pushed and in the end despite my decision previously (made when I was in the correct state of mind to make such a decision) I agreed. Had cs and tubes cut a couple of days later and regretted it immediately.

I have been massively depressed as felt pushed into it when I was vulnerable. This evening I have read the RCOG guidelines for sterilisation that not only state the a patient should request sterilisation rather than a dr suggest it but also that you should be given counselling and written info to consider, other options discussed and when done at time of cs the decision should be made at a sep time preferably at least a week before the op which was not the case for me.

I feel I was let down when at my most vulnerable. Is there anything legally that I can do ?

Tia

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Angryandneedsomehelp · 29/09/2013 22:15

34weeks sorry not 34was

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lougle · 29/09/2013 22:17

Were the grounds sterilisation was suggested on to do with your future health, should you fall pregnant?

Angryandneedsomehelp · 29/09/2013 22:20

Yes because it was my fourth cs and I had been unwell.it had been suggested in clinic and I had said no when I was capable of making the right decision.

I was not in the right state of mind in hospand looking back I wish they'd gone through other options with me, coil, implant etc but I was so unwell/hormonal and tired I didn't question it just gave in.

I wish they'd read my notes and seen in capitals how against sterilisation I was. I'm just so so unhappy and reading those guidelines has made me completely miserable and angry that they didn't follow them.

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Angryandneedsomehelp · 30/09/2013 09:37

I am going to contact a solicitor today. Not because I want compensation, all I want is an apology and for them to follow the guidelines and hopefully nobody else will go through what I have.

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