I wonder if anyone can help me with this.
May be a slightly long convoluted story but I'll try to keep it succinct and to the point.
Two male friends of mine entered into a Civil Partnership some 9 or so years ago. They were together until 2008 at which point one of them left the union due to infidelity, financial dishonesty and unreasonable behaviour.
At around this time I too ceased to be friends with this person (mainly the same reasons) and little more was heard from him. I knew that he was HIV+ but nowadays that's no longer the death sentence it once was.
His partner also knew that.
The estranged partner returned to his homeland - Germany and although there were attempts by the other person to rekindle the relationship he was resolute that it was over. A dissolution of the union was refused him and he, probably unwisely, decided to bury the whole thing and not deal with it. He did make tentative enquiries about a year ago but his German lawyer told him it would be difficult and expensive to do from there and so he shelved it again.
News has just reached us that the UK based partner has now died. I guess that without me having been told then the Germany based partner might never have known this - but I don't know that for sure. Anyway - he knows and is dealing with whatever emotions this throws up but has absolutely no idea if he has to do anything about anything and I have no idea either - or any idea of where to direct him. I wonder if anyone here might know?
Thanks in advance for any advice.