I am a victim of domestic violence, there was a non-molestation order granted in ex-parte against my ex-husband which is now expired. Police arrested him but he refused to accept what he has done to me and got released with verbal warning.
I was kept in isolation by various threats made by him - I'm not familiar to this country where he took benefits out of it - by making me believing all the things he say such as - he got a friend in t-mobile who will listen to what I talk, he has spy device fixed on the land phone and can listen what I speak whereever he is, he got someone in the surgery who can see the records and let him know, if i go against him and report the violence I won't be believed telling some past history of his violence towards his ex-girl friend where the police left him with no action taken. I was abused by all means sexually, verbally, financially and physically. I lived in the matrimonial where him and his mum and brother lived. I had no relatives or friends in the area which was entirely new to me.
It took two years for me to transform myself to open up boldly like this unlike the timid and innocent personality which I was having in the past.
He chose not to get a return date as "he thought is will run its course"; Instead he filed a divorce case mentioning my allegations are false and on the unreasonable behaviour grounds.
I got help from a solicitor who promised to file an answer and a cross petition but never had done that. Every time I phoned up, I was told I will be contacted when the document is ready and no need to phone again and again. Certificate of matrimonial caused was issued - Decree nisi was pronounced - but I have never informed by the solicitor about any of these.
This lead to the divorce been finalised on the grounds my unreasonable behaviour and the ex's solicitor's are bringing this in papers now as to : "false allegations".
I am sure that all what I have said was true.
Is this false image on me- correctable? and How?
Many thanks