Where do I start? X has a history of domestic violence with me hes a binge drinker and acute nappoleon syndrome! My son and daughter were exposed to porn in his care, both say he showed it to them but due to their age the cps would not support the case as there was only the kids word against his . . No hard evidence. . . Just before the finding of fact hearing in civil court which would determine contact . . . He confessed. . . Now after having all that to deal with and moving on, I have been informed that hes beating his new girlfriend with whom he has a baby of yr. Social services have told me what happened and have spoken to my son and daughter. They initally assessed him and his girlfriend then me . . He hasnt had contact since sept following legal advice and social services. Since then his father has passed and he wanted to take the kids to see him. Also with it being Christmas I feel like I will be criticised. Up to this point in time ive had evil eyes, been judged, ridiculed by his family and friends of his. Had phone calls and voicemails pleading not to go to court as it will make things difficult, anon phonecalls at 4 am. It aint very pleasant paying at asda checkout and his best mates girlfriend is glaring directly at you as if shes about to kill you. It is obvious that im being portrayed as a mum who is denying contact for no reason. Ive got a damn good reason and from now on anyone who judges will get the facts . . . Simples. Im trying to do my best but sometimes its hard to stay strong. I havent abused my kids by showing them porn, become violent and drunk in front of my kids, struck someone in front of them. I am protecting them to my best ability and will as long as I live....how do others going through such stress cope?
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