OK this may be long but just wanted to give a thorough explanation.
I lived and worked as a volunteer in one of the poorest countries in Africa for 2 years. Very early on I met my now husband.
We were hoping to get him a visitors visa to the UK whilst I worked to save up the money for the permanent visa as the advice from the UKBA suggests when applying for permanent residency your spouse needs to have been working for 6 months.
Looking back obviously this was too good to be true and the UKba rejected the visitor visa application. In Africa I was only being given a food allowance so I have nothing really in terms of money and I don't own my own property.
With all of this we decided we would get married mainly so we could share our union with his family.
I have an appointment with an immigration lawyer on Friday but I really can't afford to be throwing money away so I was hoping people could give me some suggestions or any difficulties anyone else has faced on getting a DH from Africa into the UK. I know immigration rules are getting tighter and tighter every day so really need some help.
The whole situation is frustrating as we are actually considering living permanently in his country not here in the UK but none of my family will fly and I desperately want him to meet them and experience some of my culture as I have spent 2 years living with his family.
The whole thing is driving us both mad and is not helped that I have just spent about 24 flying back to the UK and left him there so I can try to help us meet the immigration requirements, everyone we seem to talk to tells us we stand no chance, it's just so depressing. More than anything what we really need is free advice and unfortunately I'm having to pay the lawyer for her time so wanted some hints on what I should ask or clear up with her to make the most use of our money!!
TIA