She arrived here at 13, is now 40, speaks English perfectly, (see?s herself as Londoner 1st, British 2nd, ethnicity 3rd, country of origin not at all.)
She was brought here from S.E.Asia, but is from another ethnicity to the country of origin, and has no links to either the country, or the ethnic group.
She married a British man at 20. Retained her S.E.Asian passport, (but in the last few years has failed to update citizenship card. A serious offence there, and may have lost her citizenship, was warned the last time she allowed it to lapse)
19 years later, her husband died. (suicide)
She has a house (with outstanding mortgage) a load of cats, Aspergers diagnosis and serious mental health difficulties (could cause difficulties with citizenship tests despite perfect English) tends to suicidal thoughts on all problems, and is unable to get from day to day without support. She wouldn't cope if sent to her country of origin. Has never held a UK passport, but is in the benefit, NHS, and tax systems.
Her very estranged mother is here, but does something involving travelling each year to remain legally here.
Friend has no idea where she stands, is living in fear, and is much too afraid and unwell to seek help. (Ending things seems a more sensible option to her.)
Does anyone have any idea if she has an automatic right to remain here since her husband?s death, or could/should do something to gain that right, or where I could look into this for her, without rocking any boats please?