Pension!

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Ok.....separated/ filed for divorce for UB....he hasnt signed yet.

Split assets from house sell...he had more...earns a little less than me
One boy unfortunately lives with him...other with me...14 and 16y...I see NR son a lot.....financially support him.....buy all clothes....take favorite goodies over....
All ex H does is provide a roof...he wanted to go to new School...hence the reason he lives with ex H...
Ex H...does not support other son. He goes off to Japan where he has GF.....son who lives with him says...all he does is go on computer to talk to his Japanese gf...leaving him to get on doing things himself and he does feel lonely...Told my son he can come home to me anytime...but he is scared of his Dad's reaction.....

Ex H has pensions....and some inheritance coming to him...not massive amount...I said would not touch...
He wants my NHS pension...says it is HIS???? Not worth a lot I'm sure....haven't paid into it all my working life...and worked part-time a lot.....
Whats the chances he could get his hands on this???
He isnt without...so dont get why he should get mine too???
Thanks....:)

So finances can be shared fairly, you will both be asked to make a full financial disclosure and this includes any pensions. Then it's up to the court to decide who gets what.

You should be entitled to a share of your ex's pension too.

I inherited a bit after my ex had left me and solicitor told me as it wasn't a marital asset it wouldn't be taken into account when sharing finances.

It helped me buy ex out of the joint property so he benefited from it anyway.

You will need to take legal advice - please see a solicitor.

Inheritances aren't always excluded from sharing. It's a very complex picture and getting proper legal advice is essential. Look for a local solicitor on the resolution.org website.