Im going rough a divorce. Stbxh walked out when I was 8 months of and has never lived with ds. He has not had him for more than 2 hours a week and hasn't seen him for the past month. Ds is 16 weeks.
I am moving back to my home town, 3 hours away. Stbxh has no problem in this and wants to see ds for 3 hours once a month in a contact centre (he won't come to my house (confused)
It is stated on the divorce papers that he has a drink issues. I have bank statements, videos on my phone text messages that back this up.
My fear is can he just decide he wants over night contact, say in a years time, and get it? My son is so little and it's not like he lives round the corner! Ds will see him 12 times a year! And I have genuine concerns with ex behaviour. Also I know nothing about his life! He won't speak to me. I don't even know his new address (or the woman he is living with!) what shoulda be doing?