I am executor of dh's Grandfather's will. Before the death, the whole family fell out over money and inheritance.
DH's uncle and my FIL no longer speak, so he has tried to get me, through his solicitor, to deal with issues not relating to the will. This has hindered the duties I have, so recently I lost it in a letter to his solicitor and plainly said this is ridiculous sibling rivalry and told him a vague synopsis of why the uncle was being so awkward and that I am no longer prepared to converse regarding these issues. It was obvioulsy a good plan because these issues have now been cast to one side.
However, in the same letter the solicitor then gave me an ultimatum of dealing with the current issues, ie filing for probate etc, within 2 weeks or they would advise court proceedings! Charming, I have tried for a year to get this dealt with 
So last week I got on to it and have gathered the info I need to cancel insurance policies etc, then on Friday receive a letter to say as I have not responded within the time scale given they will now move to court proceedings!!
I am pretty sure this has cost the uncle a fair whack in solicitors fees already, and it has now become a matter of principle, but I doubt they would actually file the court proceedings as it would be so costly- but I really don't know what they suggest they would take me to court over? Taking too long?! Is this possible? Does anyone know if there is any truth behind what they threaten or are they really trying to call my bluff?