Hi there. Please bear with me, I'll keep this as brief as possible.
I left my ex due to DV some 2 years ago. I left in a vehicle that was bought for me and in my name. My ex is trying to say that I stole the van and that he wants renumeration for it. The van was bought for £600 and sold by me for £600 as I could not afford to run it and needed something smaller to transport my son and myself around in (I was also fed up with the daily threats about my ex wanting 'his' van back). It subsequently went for much more than that on eBay.
My ex started the small claims track just before Christmas and we are now at a point where the presiding judge has asked for evidence and set a court date. He did suggest mediation but we cannot as there has been police involvement to stop my ex harassing me - he has been issued with a verbal notification of harassment. Not that there is anything to mediate. The van was mine, I left him with a vintage Land Rover and a motorbike. My ex is asking for £4000 including 86p a day interest since I left. I have all of the relevant documentation which I have already sent to court BUT....
.... there are other things that I feel I should tell/remind the judge about and I am not sure whether to do so or not. I have no money to pay for a solicitor as the only Legal Aid funding I do have only covers sorting out our joint assets which my ex is also being horrible about and nothing else. He has tried to bully me into taking a substantially smaller offer (by 10's of thousands) for my share of the house by saying that he would not take me to small claims for the vehicle if I accepted it.
He has been told of by the same Judge who is looking at this claim for not returning my son to me after he took him and went for an ex parte residency order, which he was not granted. My ex had told the judge when he went for ex parte that he would be keeping my son and was told to return him as scheduled. My ex did not do this.
All of this just proves what he is like. I have already written in my first statement that my ex is continuing to bully me any way that he can, and that taking me to small claims is just another example of it.
The Judge that is handling this small claims case is the same judge who resided over the case about my son and made it quite clear that he felt everything should be done to make sure my boy's best interests were at heart. How can my ex taking me to court for money I do not have, be in my boy's best interests? We barely have enough to live on as it is.
I feel utterly sick to the pit of my stomach about my ex having yet another (and very needless) day in court again!
Thanks for taking the time to read this.
Blue Bear