Currently going through the process (or should i say mill) and letters being drafted.
X has stated that he will continue to provide the financial input to maintain DS aged 4 in his current home and lifestyle. To do this he will contribute what equates to 30% of his net earnings, which is over and above what the CSA would order, but without it we would not be able to stay where we are.
Sol has said that any order is only valid for 12 months and after that CSA would have to be involved if any problems and amount would decrease significantly. There would only be a nominal order for spousal maintenance as we earn approximately the same currently, but I will be losing earning potential inside the next year due to changes being made to work pattern and loss of unsocial payments.
So, 2 questions really:-
1 Why are orders only valid for 12 months if they contain wording that the order is to have effect until DS is aged 18 or ceases full time tertiary education
2 What can I do (if anything) in the wording of the order to ensure that DS and I don't end up a year from now being in the position of having to sell up with little equity to finance buying a new home.