I'm posting this as I dint know which way to turn.
Me and exh split up in 2010. I gave him free assess to the kids and he chose to see them one hour after school during the week at mine and 3 hours at his mothers on a Sunday. I know this isn't enough time but understand he doesn't have his own place.
Dd2 went to stay last Friday overnight and then she decided that she wished to live with her dad. I agreed as I know she wanted to be with her dad and he has as much right as me.
But since then I have only seen her briefly on the playground in the morning last week. I wanted her overnight on Saturday but was texted on sat saying she was ill and couldn't come round. Saw her briefly yeasterday when I dropped the others over to see their dad. Asked to have her today and got told they were going out. Asked if I can have her on Wednesday as we are going roller skating to be told she will think about it.
I asked exh if I can take her to the zoo soon with the others and he said he will ask dd2. Dd1 told me that dd2 had no idea about it when she mentioned it. When I saw her yesterday I asked if she wanted to come back for a few hours and she looked at exh and then said no
I just want assess to her but I am being stopped everytime. what should I do? He barely sees the others and it's like now he has his 'daddy's girl' that the others don't matter and neither do I.