Is anyone able to offer me some basic advice before I book an appointment with a solicitor as I would like to at least consider some options before this.
I am unmarried but cohabit with the father of my 3 children, we both have wills leaving to each other and if we both die then to the children.
I want to try to reduce IHT if I were to die. I have no expectation of doing so soon but want to plan just in case. My children and partner would have to sell the house we all currently live in or sell our BTL portfolio and my partners house (which is now a BTL in his sole name) to pay the IHT.
Our family home is worth about £1m and is mortgage free and is in my name only. I had cleared the mortgage before I met my partner and before the children were born so I had expected that he would have no claim on this property if we were to split as we are unmarried but am aware that he may well have claim now as the rulings have changed. The BTL properties are in joint names with my partner and all have mortgages but there is about £250k equity overall between us in total. My partners previous house has about £180k equity in his name only, remainder on BTL mortgage.
I appreciate that getting married would eliminate the IHT liability if I were to die and it would only be payable if both my partner and I died but we have no plans to marry. Any suggestions welcome.