To the DD of the deceased:
Dear 'x',
I hope you are well.
I have been asked by family members to enquire as to whether 'y' left a will, and to ask with whom is it lodged.
Many thanks,
Erebus
Then, assuming she tells me:
Dear Solicitors.
I understand that the Will of 'y' of village A. who died on dd/mm/yy was lodged with you.
I would be grateful if you could send me a copy of this will as there may be a matter that we wish to discuss further.
Yours
etc.
What do you think? I know it all sounds simple, but, in fact, I am trying to only put down what I need to. CAN I ask for a copy of the will? Do I have to prove that I might have an interest or could anyone ask? Should I even mention that we may be about to contest it?? (the 'matter').
The DD is known to me, but not particularly well, so I don't feel the need to go into great shenanigans about her grieving process (her mother, incidentally, was 96 so not a sudden, unexpected death).
Thanks.