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lighterw8 · 19/05/2011 23:41

My niece has 2 children aged 3 and 1yr old. She is not married to her partner and has recently split from him due to emotional abuse. He is on both children's birth certificate. She has allowed the father full contact with the children and been totally accommodating to his hours of work. Two weeks ago he picked the children up and has since refused to bring them back. No-one seems to be able to intervene as they are in a 'safe environment'. He is allowing no contact and has not even been taking the 3yr old to nursery as the nursery has advised the father that my niece can pick them up at any stage. He starts back work next week and has organised a child minder but is refusing to tell my niece where the children will be. We just all feel so helpless. She has been to a lawyer for a court date but this can take weeks. Has anyone experienced the same thing? Is there something else she can do to get contact?

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STIDW · 23/05/2011 15:51

Thank you for the compliment. I also contribute to Wikivorce and the reply would be the same. Wink

Takeresponsibility · 23/05/2011 17:34

STIDW

Glad you took it as a compliment, did not mean to suggest the info was wrong merely that in addition to the legal advice available there are lots of Scottish parents who would be able to contribute and give practical advice.

Tyr · 23/05/2011 19:24

STIDW,

Thanks for the update on Scotland. I remember reading Hangar's submission and thinking it a tad curmudgeonly in that respect. Rulings from the English C.O.A. in respect of MK friends seem to me more pragmatic. I am unaware if the (in my view) misguided cuts to LA in England and Wales will have a knock-on effect in Scotland. If so, I imagine the issue will become "live" again.

Lighter8,

I would still suggest that your niece contact one of the charities I mentioned earlier with a view to accessing some pastoral support. Loss of contact is a cruel yoke to bear and nursing her along until she gets into court is half the battle.

bringinghomethebacon · 23/05/2011 20:44

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lighterw8 · 23/05/2011 22:02

No problem....I should have perhaps said sooner but didn't realise there was such a difference.

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