My Dad recently passed away. He left no will and no estate except £3100 in an Isa. My mum went to the bank to see if this money could be released to pay the funeral bill of £3200 (my sister and I had already paid another £600 separately for flowers etc). The bank revealed that Dad had a credit card which Mum didn't know about with a balance of £800. They said they would use the right of offset to pay this first and then release the remaining £2400. I wrote to them querying this as my understanding was that legally debts had to be paid in a strict order with funeral bills being first. I spoke to the bank today and they said that a letter was on it's way to me that basically says that this decision will stand - they have cleared the credit card balance as this is in their terms and conditions and this overrules the legal order of debts. Should I accept this now or challenge it further? (The info on the financial ombudsman site re the right of offset seems only to apply to a living person). I may be misreading it but it seems like their terms and conditions are at odds with the law?
Many Thanks